I am originally from Spain and have been living in the UK for the last 10 years. I’ve been single for the last 6 years and didn’t want to date because I had a few bad experiences in the past. Two of my exes hurt me badly, and I decided it would be better if I stayed on my own. Over the years, I changed my mind and wanted to start dating again, but no one interesting ever come into my life. I believed that when the time was right, a great guy would show up and everything would be fine! But unfortunately, that was not happening for me.
Recently I started to feel as though something was missing in my life and didn’t know where to start. I also felt very insecure, thinking about why everyone else could have a relationship and a marriage and I couldn’t. I am quite good looking and smart and was doing a lot of yoga and meditation and working on my inner peace and happiness. I hated online dating websites and didn’t want to use them. I found Andreja’s feminine energy article and read a few others and many of those resonated so much with me! I decided to do the Assessment Call, and she identified that fear of intimacy, fear of abandonment and very low self-esteem were blocking me from moving forward in my love life. She explained that inner work on myself was necessary to release the old patterns, while also dating and practicing her tools at the same time. I didn’t have enough money to invest in coaching, but my whole heart was saying that I needed to. Over a period of a few weeks, I managed to borrow from my family and was very excited about this step, and also a bit scared.
I am so glad I did this. I enjoy knowing that there is someone who is a professional in this area and waits for me every Tuesday on a video call with a big smile and lifts my spirits up and pushes me out of my comfort zone! She has so many tasks for me and keeps me accountable. She helped me change my mindset about dating and pushed me back into it because she always says that not dating is not an option at all if we want to attract the right man. She helped me to identify that I was doing a job that I really didn’t like, and that this was also one of the things affecting my self-esteem in the wrong way. Now I am in the process of going after my dream job, which makes me really excited. I feel I am on the right path now. Everything is changing for me, and my confidence is coming back to me. Guys treat me better, and I practice feeling statements and leaning back in my feminine energy. Sometimes I experience disappointments with guys and get annoyed when some of them ghost me, but I know I have to be patient. Most of the time I feel very good and very hopeful for my future.
I would definitely recommend Andreja to anyone who needs help and support in this area.