What if he texts you but doesn’t ask you out on a date?
Have you ever met a guy who you like and he sends you nice text messages on a regular basis but never asks you out?
You like him very much but time is passing and nothing changes. You feel very frustrated about it.
He is flirting with you and you are surely not in the friend zone but what is he waiting for? Why doesn’t he ask you out, you might be wondering.
Maybe after a long wait, you decide to take the initiative and ask him out. He says yes but then cancels at the last moment. Looks like he is really wishy-washy but then he keeps sending messages to you.
What does this mean and what to do about it?
Texting can’t replace face to face visits. Many intelligent women nowadays get fooled by this attention and believe that it means something. But sadly, it doesn’t!!!
Texting without meeting and dating is just words, nothing more!
Some men get their fill of feminine energy without ever needing to date you. In some cases, they build stable texting buddies to boost their ego.
Don’t fall into this trap!
When a man is truly interested in you, he will ask you out and he will want to see you! No matter what that man has to do, he will fit you into his schedule. If a guy really likes you, he will make time for you and make sure he gets in touch with you.
If he likes you, you will know it! You shouldn’t ever be left wondering.
So, what to do in a situation like this? This man is actually stringing you along and “chatting you up”. He is keeping you as an option if all other things don’t work out.
Maybe he talks about getting together but never follows up. This is a man who has decided you are not the one for him. It is possible that you feed his ego so he keeps up flirting and texting because it makes him feel good.
If he doesn’t ask to talk on the phone and then meet you within the next ten days, or maximum two weeks, you can stop answering his texts and move on! It is as simple as that! You are investing your precious time in a man who has no plans to date you.
Therefore, it is your job to get out of a situation like this and to weed out guys who are not serious. Those texts are meaningless!
This is one of the boundaries you can set for yourself and refuse any guy who is not acting in accordance with it.
For example, I had my boundary set that I stop responding to a man who hasn’t asked me out within a three week period.
Set your own boundaries in advance and stick to them!
Having boundaries helps us in valuing ourselves and in keeping our confidence high. Every man that meets you will know that you are a woman who values and respects herself and holds herself in high regard. He will be able to feel it in your vibe.
That will make you even more attractive. Having boundaries will help you to let go of the people who don’t do what they are supposed to so you can make free space for the ones who will give you all that you need.
Don’t accept crumbs when you deserve the whole cake! We accept the love we think we deserve. You deserve the best! You deserve a man who will want to spend time with you and who will not keep you waiting and wondering. You deserve a man to whom you will be a priority and not just a texting buddy.
Hence, if you notice that a guy is wishy-washy, just move on!
You deserve better than that! Don’t make excuses for him and don’t waste more of your precious time.
If he wanted to ask you out, he would!
P.S. If you want to get more love advice from me and connect with other ladies who are also learning new things about dating and relationships, join us in the private Facebook group “Love With Ease”.
Everything you post there is highly confidential.
I would love to get to know you and connect with you more in my facebook group.
Lots of love,