‘Value Youself’

What if he texts you but doesn’t ask you out on a date?

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Have you ever met a guy who you like and he sends you nice text messages on a regular basis but never asks you out? 

You like him very much but time is passing and nothing changes. You feel very frustrated about it.

He is flirting with you and you are surely not in a friend zone but what is he waiting for? Why doesn’t he ask you out?you might be wondering.

Maybe after a long wait, you decided to take initiative and ask him out. He said yes but then canceled at the last moment. Looks like he is really wishy-washy but he keeps sending messages to you.

What does that mean and what to do about it?

Texting can’t replace face to face visits. Many intelligent women nowadays get fooled by this attention and believe that it means something. But sadly, it doesn’t!!!

Texting without meeting and dating is just words, nothing more!

Some men get their fill of feminine energy without ever needing to date you. In some cases, they build a stable texting buddies to boost their ego.

Don’t fall into this trap!

When a man is truly interested in you, he will ask you out and he will want to see you! No matter what that man has to do, he will fit you into his schedule. If a guy really likes you, he will make time for you and make sure he gets in touch with you. 

If he likes you, you will know it! You shouldn’t ever be left wondering.

What to do in a situation like this? This man is actually stringing you along and “chatting you up”. He is keeping you as an option if all the other things don’t work out.

Maybe he talks about getting together but never follows up. This is a man who has decided you are not the one for him. It is possible that you feed his ego so he keeps up flirting and texting because it makes him feel good.

If he doesn’t ask to talk on the phone and then meet you within next ten days or maximum of two weeks, you can stop answering his texts and move on! It is simple as that! You are investing your precious time in a man who has no plans to date you.

Therefore, it is your job to get out of the situation like this and to weed out guys who are not serious. Those texting things are meaningless!

This is one of the boundaries you can set for yourself and refuse any guy who is not acting in accordance with it.

For example, I had my boundary set that I stop responding to a man who hasn’t asked me out in a three weeks period.

Set your own boundaries in advance and stick to them!

Having boundaries helps us in valuing ourselves and in maintaining our confidence high. Every man that meets you will know that you are a woman who values and respects herself and holds herself in high regard. He will be able to feel it in your vibe.

That will make you even more attractive. Having boundaries will help you to let go of the people who don’t do what they are supposed to so you can make free space for the ones who will give you all that you need.

Don’t accept crumbs when you deserve the whole cake! We accept the love we think we deserve.  You deserve the best! You deserve a man who will want to spend time with you and who will not keep you waiting and wondering. You deserve a man to whom you will be a priority and not just a texting buddy.

Hence, if you notice that a guy is wishy-washy, just move on!

You deserve better than that! Don’t make excuses for him and don’t waste more of your precious time.

If he wanted to ask you out, he would!

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Lots of love,

Andreja


A Feminine Godess Type of A Woman

As women, we shall be soft and open like the flowers.

The same as a flower opens its petals to receive the warmth from the sun, us women shall always stay open and in a receiving mode. Always feeling ready to receive love from a man and from the world around us.

We shouldn’t allow ourselves to shut down and to be closed off or absorbed in our thoughts.

We are smart, intuitive, creative and powerful creatures.

A woman who is connected with her feminine power is aware of the huge value she is adding to her man’s life. She feels as a Goddess.

What are the characteristics of a Goddess Woman?

  • Freedom to be who she is and feeling free to express herself in a way a man finds compelling.
  • A knowledge that a man is here to add to her life, but she doesn’t need him in order to feel good. She already feels good herself and is a high maintenance.
  • Not having time to worry about what any man does when he’s not around her because she is too busy taking care of herself and following her dreams
  • Being too busy going after things she loves and things that make her happy, inspired and passionate. Going after things that make her filled with positive feelings and energy so she can share her happy self with him.

A Goddess Woman has naturally a high degree of difficulty because she knows her secret.

Before I write about what her secret is and which attitudes she has, let me write a little about the opposite kind of woman ; a clingy and needy one.

The one whose energy supply depends on a man.

A woman who doesn’t have any other joys and passions besides her relationship.

She feels as if she needs a man to complete her and to make her feel fulfilled.

Can you imagine how her world can easily become very small by being hung up on that one particular man?

As I wrote in my previous blogs, dating different men at the same time with the right mindset can help you tremendously to never come to the point of neediness and desperation.

Being attractive, a magnetic and irresistible is about being your most authentic and vulnerable self. It is about deeply enjoying who you are and radiating positive vibe to all the people around you.

What if I tell you that you can achieve this just by changing the attitude you have about yourself?

By finding your purpose and some activity in your life which will constantly keep you inspired and motivated?

Setting a goal that will make you jump out of your bed in the morning! It is your job to find and set this kind of goal.

Let me go back to the secret of the Goddess Woman and share with you which attitudes make her so confident and irresistible.

The beliefs and attitudes of a woman who is connected with her feminine power are:

  • knowing that she has A LOT to offer to a man
  • knowing that she brings a special value to her man’s life.
  • knowing her VALUE and WORTH
  • believing that what she has to offer will strongly enrich her man’s life.
  • being sure that there is an abundance of love and that all men want to love her. The only thing she needs to do is to be open to RECEIVE the love which is all around and surely coming to her.
  • believing that she is the best thing ever happened to him.
  • believing that her man finds her extremely attractive…  and so on.

She knows that SHE is responsible for her feelings of happiness, and not her man.

If some man doesn’t treat her good, she doesn’t tolerate an inconsiderable behavior. She either accept or reject because she is the one in charge!

Your man wants to be around soft, juicy, confident and authentic woman .

If you try to practice some of those attitudes which I described, you’ll see how your life will start changing!

Being connected to our strong feminine essence and power means having a strong as a rock belief.

A belief that we are strong and grounded from the inside which will make us warm, open, inviting and soft on the outside.

Fill yourself with positive feelings and adopt in your life all of the attitudes of a Goddess type of woman. Very soon you will start to attract men who will treat you like one!

 

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I would love to support you more.

Lots of love,

Andreja