I remember a few years ago someone told me that “Our Vibe Speak Louder Then Our Words”.
I remember back then I understood that; whenever we feel good. positive and energetic, we spread good vibes to people around us and to the universe.
What does it really mean to shift our vibe? When is our vibe actually speaking something that we aren’t saying? We are all so good at pretending and such good actors. We believe that it is much better to hide the truth sometimes and to stay in our comfort zone and not to rock the boat of the relationship.
Pretending, acting, lying, being defensive, stuffing things down, trying to please others on our own cost or not being able to say “no“ to a man will just push a man away.
Let me give you an example.
Imagine you’re feeling angry because a man you are dating is late for a date and that isn’t the first time. You don’t want to evoke an argument or a fight so you just smile and act like nothing happened. Even though you’re sitting there with a big smile on your face, he can feel, in your vibe, in your energy field, that something is off.
He actually feels uncomfortable sitting there with you. He feels the tension in the air even though he doesn’t know why. You didn’t say anything to him, but still, your vibe is communicating that you aren’t happy about something.
How can you shift your vibe in a situation like this?
It can happen simply by being authentic, expressing your truth in the moment without attacking a man or making him wrong. It’s about expressing how you feel and asking him what he thinks about it.
A woman who is strong and confident enough to tell her truth in any situation is very attractive to a man. A woman who is able to feel her feelings and express them in each moment, simple and authentic as they show up, is a magnet to a man.
If you have felt angry, you should allow yourself to feel angry and acknowledge and accept it . Embrace that feeling and take full responsibility for it!
When he comes to you, you can share with him that you feel angry and that you don’t like waiting and ask him what he thinks you two should do? The most important thing here is to owe your own anger without attacking him or acting out of it.
Shifting your vibe at any moment is a skill you can learn by practicing it baby step by baby step.
It is crucial to recognize moments in which your vibe is changing. Moments in which you start to feel needy, desperate or similar. You can stop those moments by redirecting your thoughts to more positive ones.
You Need To Trust Your Vibe Because Energy Never Lies!
In order to have a good vibe, it is also necessary to do all in your power to feel good about yourself.
In addition, shifting your vibe is very much about the attitude you have toward yourself.
Do you believe deep inside yourself that you’re lovable? Do you believe that you deserve love and fulfilling and wonderful relationship?
What are your beliefs about men and relationships? Do you think that all the good men are taken and that you will never attract a good man for yourself?
Do you believe that you’re attractive to all men around you? Are you a crumb taker, a doormat type of woman? Or do you believe that you are a prize he has to win?
All the beliefs you have about yourself are with you in your energy field; in your vibe, and you are carrying them with you where ever you go.
Whatever you believe about yourself deep down, you will attract in the outside world!
If you don’t value yourself and don’t believe that you deserve a great partner, you will attract a man who will not treat you well because deep down you believe that you don’t deserve anyone better than that. Your vibe attracts your tribe!
We get the love we think we deserve!
Therefore, if you change your attitude and start to believe deep down, in the core of your being, that you’re lovable and a prize who deserve only the best, your vibe will automatically shift.
Men will feel that you are grounded in self-love and high self-esteem.
That’s why it’s crucial to get to know yourself well and to realize which deep beliefs you have about yourself and which voices in your head you listen to, so you can change them.
Maybe your beliefs and previous experiences are working against you and blocking love from coming to you.
Our past is not our destiny. We can change this all around.
I know you can do this!
Be brave enough to uncover yourself; remove all the layers of protection, all the defenses and anything that is preventing you from speaking your truth clearly and without fear.
Always remember you can’t hide the vibration of your true feelings. Allow yourself to stay connected to what you really feel and be confident enough to share it with your man.
Therefore embrace your vulnerability and let your soul be seen.
Speak your truth. Always!
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Lots of love,