“If you need to ask yourself where you stand with someone very often, maybe it is time to stop standing and start walking.”
One of the ways in which you can “start walking” is definitely SIM dating which is one of the fundamental concepts of Love With Ease coaching system.
SIM dating means simultaneously dating more than one man.
If you don’t like going to clubs and you don’t have many social activities to attend, online dating is the best solution for you to arrange dates. It is also great to check out “meetup activities” in your city because that is also a great option to meet new people.
Even if you DO have a very active social life and have been invited to many dates, there are never too many invitations and offers.
I want you to feel very abundant regarding your possibilities.
Don’t get yourself stuck on just one person, who is maybe far away from the idea of making you his wife. Even if he has been dating you for a while now.
Choose a few of your best photos, upload them on at least 2 or 3 online dating profiles and then just wait for your messages and invitations to dates.
It is that simple and it will help you not to get stuck on that one man who kept you wondering is he serious about you or not!
Of course, you stay sexually exclusive with just one of the guys but you accept invitations to coffee dates and walks from other guys as well.
Until you don’t have a ring on your finger, you need to keep your options open.
Guys don’t feel any kind of commitment to you until they don’t propose to you even if you are exclusive. They are just dating you.
Even if you have been together for years.
They can change their minds at any time and you need to protect yourself by having other options and in this way, keeping your vibe high.
Even if you feel very much in love with one of them.
In that case, you should be SIM dating even more.
I know that it might sound shocking when you hear it for the first time but in the most cases it a necessity.
Don’t be lazy and don’t make excuses for yourself why you are not dating at the moment and why you don’t have time for it.
We always find time for things that are important for us.
You need to free time for dating in your dairy if long-term success in love is your goal.
Leave emotions out of the first phases of dating and observe man’s actions very objectively.
Lean back and check his actions rather than his words. Only by leaning back will you be able to notice what he truly has to offer and is
Only by leaning back you will be able to notice what he truly has to offer and is he capable leading the relationship.
If you are very interested in a guy, wait as long as possible to sleep with him.
Spend time to observe objectively how much of his time, energy and feelings is he ready to invest in you and is stepping up. Your only job is to observe his actions and his level of investment.
You can keep him as one of the guys you are seeing but please don’t keep wishy-washy or hot and cold guy as your only option because that is a recipe for your emotional disaster.
It is time to start walking my dear if he keeps making you wondering where you stand with him.
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Lots of love,