Sometimes when we have just started seeing a particular guy, we start to worry about things.
Our past disappointments, hurts, fears and doubts find their way to influence us.
You might be asking yourself things like: “Will he be another vanisher (ghoster :)) or will he stay?”
Does he have good intentions for me and is he honest?
How do I know whether I can trust him or not?
It is enough for you to TRUST YOURSELF.
He needs to earn your trust through the period of time by his actions.
What you can do, is stop worrying, and catch yourself when you give attention and energy to your old beliefs or triggers based on your previous experiences.
Your past is not your future!
Always focus on what you want instead of focusing on what you don’t want!
You need to know that the meaning that you give to certain situations and your man’s actions will influence the way you feel.
You have the power to choose to give the meaning that serves you!
If you already make things up, make up the things with outcomes that you desire.
See the outcome that you desire!
Even if you can’t get it with this guy, it will help you look beyond your old patterns and attract that kind of outcome in the future!
For example, imagine this man you just met giving you a flower.
Imagine him next to a lake giving you a beautiful diamond, or a chocolate, or a nice long hug (whatever works for you) and just connect with how that feels.
Connecting with “HOW WOULD MY DESIRED OUTCOME FEEL?” will bring your desired outcome much faster!
Your only job is to focus on how that would feel as many times per day as possible.
Stay in that vibrational state for as long as you can.
Start with a few times a day for 3-5 minutes.
See and FEEL the desired outcome and focus on it.
This is one of the ways to cope with worries, fears and doubts.
I give my clients many more, because the way you cope with your old fears, doubts, worries, self-guilt and similar, actually defines what kind of results you will get in the future.
We want to get rid of, and release your old negative beliefs and thought patterns.
In order to help you with this, I have made a positive affirmations audio mp3.
It will sow the seed of new ways of thinking and feeling about yourself in your mind and soul.
After only a few weeks of listening to this audio on a regular basis, you will feel so different about yourself.
Very soon, when you are alone, those new kinds of thoughts will just start to come up.
You will get rid of your old, false and limiting beliefs forever!
This magical life-changing audio is coming very soon so stay tuned!
I have never been so happy with any product I have created so far, and I will make it very affordable for everyone in the first few weeks of its launch.
Release your fears, doubts and worries when you catch them, and replace them with self-empowering and self-loving thoughts and scenarios in your head, instead of creating fear.
Guys, I can’t wait for you to listen to those affirmations!
Much love xx,
If you are spending your time worrying whether a man will like you or not, please JUST STOP!
You need to change your mindset and understand what I am about to tell you! One tiny mindset shift will do wonders for you!
IT IS OBLIGATORY FOR YOU to hold the absolute certainty that there is a man out there who will want you, and only you, and who will choose to love YOU!
No matter if 100s of others will not!
The right guy for you will stay! And he will choose YOU.
And you know what?
There is an abundance of men like that who really want to LOVE you just for being you.
Yet still, in order to make it possible for them to find you and see you, you need to remind yourself about this fact over and over again, until it becomes real and written into every cell of your body.
You need to do whatever it is in your power to start believing this strongly and deeply!
Your inner mindset will attract the result you will get on the outside. Keep building this strong belief starting from today!
Are you checking out that handsome guy and feeling invisible to him because he is checking out another woman?
That’s fine dear, the right guy for you will check YOU out and come to you!
Chill in peace, he is on his way!
This will happen only if you start to really believe in this, and be at total ease with yourself, without feeling unworthy or less than enough.
You are much more than enough!
You are great and you just need to believe that the right man for you will see that and come to you!
And he will stay!
Adopt this new belief and stop comparing yourself to anyone else.
Instead of spending your precious energy on self-doubting thoughts and comparisons, rather spend it on building this firm and strong-as-a-rock belief that this Universe is VERY abundant and there must be the right guy for you here.
No matter what happened to you in the past.
It is time right now to adopt this belief again!
The key for this door of love to open for you is your strong-as-a-rock belief that you are enough, that you are worthy of love and that you deserve to have a great man in your life.
For all those guys who you’ll meet, and who will not show interest; or will not give you attention; or will reject you; or not notice you; or not appreciate you enough; you will be at so much ease because you will have the right mindset in which you will believe from the bottom of your heart and soul.
That mindset is: “The right man for me will stay”.
He will come and mirror your strong and powerful belief in your own worth for love.
And from that moment on, everything with him will flow effortlessly and with ease simply because he will be the right man for you!
Anchor yourself in this belief.
Feel it, see it, breathe it, until you completely own it!
This will instantly shift your vibe and make you so confident and so free from comparing yourself with other women, or from feeling that disappointment if a guy gives attention to someone else and not you; or if you are feeling upset if someone ghosted on you; or is wishy-washy or similar.
That just means he was not the right one for you.
The right man for you will stay!
Much love xx